Secretmeet

I've sent 7 emails to them asking to delete me from their database. I thought they were an Australian site. They ignore every email. I'm getting so frustrated of all these notifications from men. They are deliberately ignoring me. Show details

hadn't done anything like this in years. felt rusty and a bit awkward at first. secretmeet is patient I suppose, nobody's rushing you. got more comfortable over time. good way to ease back into talking to new people without it being high stakes. Show reply

the only issue for me is the cost, everything else is good. nice people and the app works. just dear to keep going

Good experience meeting people and the lady is kind. Price is a bitsteep though. Would be five stars if cheaper

No pressure to do anything you dont want, you go at your own pace. i like that alot. less stressful than other apps Show reply

The credits system would be fine if the conversations it was buying were better. They weren't.

got a good connection going with someone on here, we just click. easy conversation no awkwardness. lucky to have found her Show reply

The support agent is so helpful and friendly, she really takes her time with me. whenever im stuck she finds the answer. shes a real asset to the company Show reply

Completely fake. I created my profile, specifying where I live ( Australia) and the age range I'm seeking. But all the women presented live on the other side of the world (.America, Ukraine) and are 20-45 years younger than me. Their answers to my questions are formulaic and clearly generated by AI. As with a number of sites, after 2 or 3… Read more

exchanges of 'dialogue' they send you a blurred video on which you have to spend 'coins', and you have to buy them

The women seem genuine. The conversations develop over time rather than dying after three messages. And when I've needed help from support I've actually got it. Three things that matter and all three are here. Show reply

The automatic crop on my profile photo cuts off the top of my head. I look like a passport photo. There's no way to adjust it. That's the first thing any woman sees when she comes across my profile. Not a great start

So far everything is going well and I'm happy for the women that are chatting with me. I hope I would find my soul mate. The conversations feel kind and supportive which gives me hope. Still when I'm logged in the chats flow nicely and feel real!! Show reply

Every other app I tried felt like a performance. Perfect photos, witty openers, exhausting. I'm a pretty quiet bloke and that whole thing isn't me. Secretmeet just feels like talking to people. Nobody's putting on a show. After a year of the other stuff this was a relief. Show reply

This is the first site I've joined where I've received responses the next day, if not the same day. I didn't look at it for a couple of days, but I started getting messages and notifications the same day I joined. I haven't used a dating site since 2010! Show reply

aawesome chatting site, people actually write stuff in their "about me" sections here which makes it easier to start a real chat. just annoyed by occasional technical glitches when loading high-res photos Show details ·  1

this site's been a go-to for me when i want to talk without expectations. no weird profiles, no fake energy. it’s just easy. i can be myself here, and that’s why i keep coming back. Show details ·  1

You can tell there are clear rules and structure here. At first it felt a bit strict, but after a while it made sense. Things stay organized and people behave better than on many other platforms. I’ll take that tradeoff Show reply

Tried uploading photos twice and it just wouldn’t go through. Error messages, then nothing. I gave up at that point, which was a bit frustrating. That said, everything else on the platform has been working smoothly for me. Chats load fine, messages are stable, and the overall experience feels reliable. Support later helped clarify what might have… Read more ·  1

caused the issue, so I’m confident it’s more of a temporary glitch than a serious problem. Minor hiccup aside, it’s still a solid platform and worth using, just needs a little polish on the technical side

At first, I’ll admit the credit system on Secretmeet threw me off a bit. When you’re new, it’s not immediately obvious which actions cost what, and I found myself being extra careful so I wouldn’t spend credits by accident. That part could definitely be explained better for beginners. That said, once I spent a little time on the platform, things… Read more ·  1

started to make a lot more sense. I actually began to appreciate the credit-based model because it gives you control. You decide when to spend and how much, instead of being locked into an automatic monthly subscription. There are no surprise renewals, and I always know where my balance is going. What really made the difference for me was the overall experience. Conversations feel real and thoughtful, the site runs smoothly, and support was helpful when I had questions. After the initial learning curve, Secretmeet turned out to be a solid and enjoyable place to connect. With a clearer intro for new users, it could be even better, but overall I’m happy I gave it time.